This list is created by me, @punyparker, and @animehunter
The list contains approximately every woman Spider-Man has even been involved with romantically,or at least strongly flirted.
We're sorry if we missed anyone.
Hope the list is helpful.
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Amazing Spider-man, Spectacular Spider-man, Sensational Spider-man
Former wife of Spider-man originally was Gwen Stacy's competition, M.J. who was a former party-girl later matured eventually became Peter's best friend and wife after Gwen (who Mary Jane was good friends with) died. After Peter and Mary Jane made a deal with Mephisto to save Aunt May's life, their marriage is erased from official continuity.
During and after the events of Superior Spider-man, Mary Jane has begun to and finally realised that she no longer wishes to be part of Peter's life as Spider-man, even after Peter's return and her finding out it was Doctor Octopus in Peter's body for all those months, but she will still be a friend to Peter and no more because she knows if she doesn't she would be drawn back into that life again
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Amazing Spider-Man,Spectacular Spider-Man,Ultimate Spider-Man,Sensational Spider-Man
Felicia Hardy(a.k.a the Black Cat) is Peter’s “superhero girlfriend”. They met in-mask, and particularly she, was fascinated by Spider-Man and not the person under the mask. Despite his love for her,Peter decided to end the relationship due to the fact that she didn’t want the man, she wanted the Spider.She later confessed that she was a fool for leaving him,and the fact that he trusted her with such a great secret, meant the world to her.She is now one of Peter’s closest friends.
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Amazing Spider-Man
Peter Parker’s first true love. She was beautiful, smart and shared Peter’s love for science. Their relationship lasted about a year, when Norman Osborn, the Green Goblin, threw her off the George Washington Bridge, and killed her.
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Amazing Spider-man
She is an officer of the NYPD's Crime Scene Unit and ex-best friend of Harry Osborn's ex-girlfriend, Lily Hollister. She had also been friends with Gwen Stacy. At Harry Osborn's goodbye party Peter asks her to be his girlfriend and the two share their first kiss. However they break up after Spider Island due to surmising that Peter was Spider-Man, and was angry that he'd lied to her.
During and after the events of Superior Spider-man, Carlie like Mary Jane has come to realise that being with Spider-man would mean experiencing things normal people shouldn't have to and she has and because of this she decides to leave New York and start her life elsewhere, a place where she wouldn't have to deal with people like the Goblin.
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Siege - Spider-Man, Ms Marvel v2, Spider Island – Avengers
Carol Danvers, the superhero Ms. Marvel, has worked with Spider-Man on occasion and even agreed to go on a date with him in accordance with his helping her on a mission, despite how angry he can make her. She later fulfils her promise. Spider-Man had admitted to himself he finds her attractive in her outfit. At the end of the near disastrous date, the two bonded together over a love of junk food. After she was possessed by the symbiote for a time, Venom hints to Spider-Man that his feelings for Ms. Marvel are mutual. The two have remained close friends.
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Ultimate Spider-Man
In the Ultimate continuity, Kitty was a young member of the X-Men and she and Peter got together after him breaking up with Mary Jane, due to fear of her getting hurt. Although the relationship was going well,Peter never lost his feelings for MJ,and that lead to the end of their relationship.
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Amazing Spider-Man
Pete and Michele were roommates at some point in his complicating life. They had a drunken hook up for a night, after May’s and Jay’s wedding, and that’s preety much it. Except the time Chameleon was pretending to be Peter and seduced Michele. After that Michele thought they were going serious, and you can imagine the problems it caused for Mr. Parker.
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Amazing Spider-man, Avenging Spider-man, What If Spider-man had married the Black Cat
Throughout the years they worked together on many adventures and there was also this feeling they had more than a mutual respect for each other and although Spider-man always felt that she was more interested in making money, there were times when he saw a compassionate side to her.
It was only until recently that we saw Silver Sable actually had a romantic interest in Spider-man. So much so that near the end of an arc she gave him her full support and almost came to confess her feelings for him, unfortunately at the time he wanted to work things out with Mary Jane and told her that he had feelings for someone else. But her feelings for him were so strong that she “gave her life” so that he could stop Doctor Octopus from destroying earth, although there are still things that suggests she survived.
In the What If? storyline What If Spider-man had married the Black Cat?, after Black Cat is accidentally killed by the Paladin, Silver Sable and Spider-Man enter into a romantic relationship due to their shared grief over the loss of their loved ones; Uatu the Watcher leaves it ambiguous whether this relationship will work out or not.
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Marvel Team-Up v1
Black Widow had an incident that made her think she was someone by the name of Nancy Rushman, a teacher, and was on the run from S.H.I.E.L.D and Hydra, although she didn't know it at the time, she met up with spider-man who agreed to help her find out what's going on and to help her regain herself. Throughout all this, She(Nancy) and Spider-man began to form a close attachment to each other, which resulted in Nancy kissing Spider-man, but when Black Widow regained her memories and herself, she broke things off, stating it was due to the life she leads and that she would never care for him as much as Nancy would have, even though she did have some feelings towards him.
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Spectacular Spider-Man,Amazing Spider-Man
Peter and Jess were always close friends, and allies. There was always a romantic tension between them, but nothing serious ever happened…
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Amazing Spider-man
Betty takes over her mother's former position as Daily Bugle secretary after she dies. Peter dates Betty Brant for a while, but they break up due to her blaming Spider-Man for the death of her brother. She later marries Daily Bugle reporter Ned Leeds, although she briefly gets back with Peter after the breakdown of her marriage. Despite this, both Betty and Peter maintain a close friendship that would manifest in being like a brother and sister.
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Astonishing Spider-Man & Wolverine
Sara was someone that was bought in as part of Mojo's game show that had Spider-man & Wolverine playing the part of survivors through time. Sara was to play the love interest of Spider-man and to encourage the relationship, Mojo planted her in Spider-mans' dreams, where Spider-man would create portraits and sculptures in her image always wondering who she was. Near the end of the story both Sara and Peter found each other and began to have a relationship. Unfortunately when the story ended and everyone was returned to the time place the story began, Sara would have no memories of her relationship with Peter, leaving Peter the only one to remember what they meant to each other.
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Amazing Spider-Man
The romantic tension were there from the start, because she ressembled Mary Jane in a RIDICULOUS way…but obviously nothing ever happened.
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Marvel Adventures Spider-Man
In Marvel Adventures Spider-man, Emma reveals that she has a crush on Peter and tries to separate Chat and Spidey by erasing Chat's memory. On her own, she decides to pay for her crimes and get arrested, but returns to help Spidey, apparently, still holding a crush on Peter.
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Spectacular Spider-man & Amazing Spider-man
A fellow Empire State University student and secretary whom Peter dates for a period of time, though his frequent disappearances complicate their relationship. She is eventually diagnosed with mild schizophrenia, ironically exacerbated by her "delusional" belief that Peter is Spider-Man. With Peter's help, she overcomes that idea. Soon afterward, she leaves New York after another man, Biff Rifkin, confesses his strong feelings for her.
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X-Men Forever
In X-Men Forever continuity, Spider-Man helped Rogue when she was annoyed with events happening around herself, her new powers and the X-Men's current status. Rogue somewhat takes Spider-Man's advice to follow her heart and, now that she can touch people, almost kisses him.
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Marvel Team Up v1
Peter and Cissy had a brief relationship when MJ had rejected his proposal,and run off to LA.He tried to develop it more but his life as Spider-Man didn’t let him,as always.They broke up when she moved out West,after her father’s death.
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Amazing Spider-Man
Adriana Soria, demonstrated complete control over anyone possessing the so-called "insect gene," an atavistic DNA feature which connected some humans to the point where they split from insects on the evolutionary tree; Spider-Man among them. While her human drones built her a nest in a New York highrise, Ana chose Spider-Man as her mate. She forced a fateful kiss on the web-slinger that unleashed an enzyme into his body. When he resisted, she began executing civilians, then used her powers to immobilize him. Spider-Man was only saved when Captain America knocked Ana off the building.It’s a complicated relationship...
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Amazing Spider-Man,Peter Parker:Spider-Man
The cousin of the late Gwen Stacy, Jill moved to New York City from Hong Kong with her father and brother, Arthur and Paul. She befriended Peter (Spider-Man) and Mary Jane Parker, taking classes with Mary Jane at Empire State University (ESU). Jill sought to understand the events surrounding Gwen's death, and though hesitant, Peter eventually told Jill his side of the story. Jill was nearly killed when caught in a crossfire during an attack by one of Norman Osborn's men on the Parker's home.
When it appeared that Peter was widowed by a deranged individual known only as the Stalker (who had kidnapped Mary Jane), Jill made romantic advances upon him. She withdrew when Mary Jane was found to be alive.
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What If Spider-man vs Wolverine
To make amends for killing Charlemagne (accidentally) Spider-man with Wolverine went on a mission to rescue her sister Alex from Russian operatives. Afterwards he stayed with her to protect her, all the while training under Nebo, honing his skills beyond anything he could do alone or imagine. Along the way, he and Alex became much closer and ended up caring deeply for each other, so much so that he reveals to her his true identity and promise that he will always be by her side and protect her, leaving his old life behind.
Carole was Peters first love on Earth-77013 in the Daily Comic Strip when he attended University.
While Carole was attending university, she met Peter and fell in love with him, as the relationship grew she became more involved in his life, she even became a favourite of Aunt May, which Carole used to her advantage.
Unfortunately due to her joining with a cult, finding out their leader was a mental escaped prisoner and telling Spider-man who who exposed him, she fell victim to their murderous machinations for her betrayal and to stay safe, she decided to leave the city and Peter forever.
Spider-Man Loves Mary Jane
Spider-Man and Firestar battled crime together (and flirting while doing it), Firestar expressed her romantic interest in Spider-Man and him in her, which results in them eventually kissing and later dating. But later Spider-Man becomes apprehensive about sharing his private life with her and comes to realise his true feelings for Mary Jane which eventually leads to them breaking up but remaining as friends.
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After being saved by Spider-Man, with Emma Frost's help she finds out Peter and Spider-Man are one and the same and thus convinces Emma to help her enroll in Peter's school, after which Chat befriends Peter and the two begin dating. While Chat never told Peter she knew about his double life, she often aided him as Spider-Man. As Chat's feelings for Peter grew stronger, her guilt over keeping so many secrets from him troubled her and she often tried to tell him the truth. Unfortunately, her fears of how he might react kept her from being completely honest with him, but Peter eventually figured out the truth and left Chat for a time. They soon reconciled, however, and Peter became happy that he now had a girlfriend who he could also share his secret with and with whom he could fight crime with.
